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A hero in every way
From today’s Raleigh News & Observer: Courtesy of Skye Lanford Chad Lanford celebrates on the soccer field with daughters Carys, left, and Cailyn in October 2009. A HERO IN EVERY WAY BY CINDY SCHAEFER – correspondent Chad Lanford kept his … Continue reading
Almost Christmas
It’s so hard for me to believe that Christmas is right around the corner. The last month has been a fog. A self-induced, busy fog. I’ve been keeping myself busy to focus on other things, to give my mind and … Continue reading
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Let me tell you a story
I talked with the reporter from the News & Observer earlier this week. And I always clam up when I talk to someone on the phone about anything official. I had a lot to tell her about Chad, but just … Continue reading
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One month
Dear Chad, I cannot believe that an entire month has passed since you left us for your next journey. Time is standing still, yet also passing so quickly I can barely keep up. I miss you and think of you … Continue reading
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Happy 7th Birthday, Carys!
My dear sweet Carys, I put you to bed last night, turned on your nightlight and whispered “I love you…” We both finished the sentence in sync: “as high as the sky, as deep as the ocean.” I can’t believe … Continue reading
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cleaning house
Dear Chad, Today I decided I had the emotional stamina to clean our bedroom. There were piles of boxes and bags I brought home from Hospice the day you passed away, along with items I used for the memorial service. … Continue reading
three
Dear Chad, You were just shy of your three year diagnosis anniversary. You were given three months to live back in June. It’s been three weeks since you left this place for somewhere better. Wednesday is the third day of … Continue reading
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Don’t wanna
Tomorrow, we have to leave the little piece of Heaven we’ve called home for a week. And we don’t wanna. Of course we’re ready to see our furry critters and sleep in our own beds. But I’m not looking forward … Continue reading
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Happy Thanksgiving!
I hope you all had a peaceful day with family and friends, gathered around laughing and sharing memories. And making some new ones, too. The girls and I had a traditional Thanksgiving Feast, complete with reggae playing in the background. … Continue reading
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